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Of Seeds and Sowers - The Newsletter
Volume 1 No 4
December 15, 2002

In This Issue:

The Garden

First Annual Christmas TeleProgram:
The Meaning of Gift explores the energetic properties of true giving -- how gift keeps giving, as long as it is in motion, how it characterizes true professionalism, where a whole raft of meaningful things not asked for, come with the package. Learn about building giving and receiving into your life and work and how it nourishes. This, and more. As close as your telephone on December 23 at 12 noon Eastern repeats (more or less) December 26 at 8 PM Eastern.
Bringing Heart Home – an invitation
Do you live in Eastern North America? If you have a strong network and would enjoy helping to bring heart work to your area, contact us now. Programs available for February, March and April include Spiritual Aspects of Mediating (2 days), Heart to Heart (1 day), and Bringing Your Heart to Your Work (1 1/2 days).
Rx FOR ORGANIZATIONS –
This is a critical time for mediation organizations. It is a time to be counted. Check dates for Barbara Ashley Phillips for a combination of keynote, workshop, mediator roundtable and organization facilitation that is better than intravenous booster-juice. If your leaders are tired, internal conflicts impede or vision and focus got lost during a cleanup, call us.

Programs and TeleClasses for January, February and March are being added daily to the web site.
With apologies for the glitches, we’d appreciate your feedback while the web site is being re-configured. We’ve been http://www.crtraining.com and we’re becoming http://www.crtraining.org, with a fine new platform for viewing, searching, registering, ordering and a lot more. We appreciate for your patience.
The Tool Shed

HUMOR

Memo greeting new employee:
You don't have to be crazy to work here... We can train you!
This little story comes from American comedian Milton Berle, widely known as “Uncle Miltie:”
I went to the rest home, and most of the folks greeted me with "Yea, Uncle Miltie!" I saw one little old lady, who was 92 and dozing in a wheelchair. I put my arm around her and said, "Do you know who I am?" She looked at me and said, "No, but if you ask at the front desk, they'll tell you."
A smile is a curve that sets everything straight. Phyllis Diller

New inventions needed: For people who like peace and quiet: a phoneless cord.




INSPIRATION

Life consists in what a person is thinking of all day.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Man goes far away or near, but God never goes far off; he is always
standing close at hand, and even if he cannot stay within he goes no
further than the door.
-- Meister Eckhart

Goodness is the only investment which never fails.
-- Henry David Thoreau


Composting

WARM FOOTPRINTS IN THE SNOW©

Once upon a time, Good King Wenceslas went out one wintry eve to deliver wood, food and wine to a poor man he had seen gathering wood for fuel that stormy night. His old page’s strength began to flag, and yet

In his master’s steps he trod, where the snow lay dinted;
Heat was in the very sod which the saint had printed.

In this season of raging storms within and without, what can we warm our hearts by, from this Christmas tale, now in its 129th year? The vitality of this story suggests there is deeper meaning than simply a good deed by a remarkable fellow. Perhaps it’s about footprints: warm footprints in the snow.

Our footprints are never in front of us, only behind. What better image of one whose life is a blessing to others and to the world, than warm footprints in the snow? Such a one faces life, whether raging storm or bright vista, not for himself or herself, but for something far more, something that lives in each one.

It is this nobility that has in times past characterize professions and crafts. There, in the old-fashioned physician and lawyer and craftsman, for example, was someone you could count on – someone who would put your interests ahead of his or her own, by virtue of their calling. Here was someone you could trust. I have known and do still know such people. And I long for that to characterize the professions today.

It is not about sacrifice – seeing oneself giving up something of value. Seeing our ordinary acts as a giving up implies a moral superiority. And it is not about it getting wealth or power for oneself. Seeing one’s daily acts as justified taking, implies a superior entitlement. Instead, it is about integrating life-affirming values based on a recognition that ‘you are as important to me as I am to myself.’ (Reconciliation Prayer, NAICR web site)

We choose our manner of daily life -- whether it is heartful or mindless. We choose lenses focused on self-interest, or larger interest. And we leave footprints – those that nourish and warm those in our wake, or those that stink.

I know now that our way of being in life has meaning. How each day is lived counts in the balance of our soul and in the balance of love and fear in the world. If every step we take is heartful, our footprints provide nourishment and warmth for those that follow us.

When we take a step in heartfulness, we see more clearly how we have been avoiding what we really, actually know about ourselves and our way of being in the world. As each layer of illusion comes off, our authenticity grows, and our footsteps warm up. There is enjoyment in each step – whatever the pain -- when the burden of illusion is lightened. And there is freedom. In darkest times, it is for us enough – to know that this freedom is there.
King Wenceslas ruled Bohemia, now part of the Czech Republic, for a short period in the early 10th Century. According to legend, a certain oak tree standing near the castle of his birth was watered with his baby bath water. The tree still stands now, 1000 years later.

In his lifetime, he was known to be personally caring of the poor and to have entered into mortal combat to save his subjects a war. After his murder at the hands of followers of his brother who then became king, his relics became associated with miracles and he is still honored as a saint. The folk tale was immortalized in the Christmas carol, Good King Wenceslas, by the Englishman, John Mason Neale.
                                      © NAICR 2002
Good King Wenceslas
Good King Wenceslas looked out on the Feast of Stephen,
When the snow lay round about, deep and crisp and even.
Brightly shone the moon that night, though the frost was cruel,
When a poor man came in sight, gathering winter fuel.
“Hither, page, and stand by me, if you know it, telling,
Yonder peasant, who is he? Where and what his dwelling?”
“Sire, he lives a good league hence, underneath the mountain,
Right against the forest fence, by Saint Agnes’ fountain.”
“Bring me food and bring me wine, bring me pine logs hither,
You and I will see him dine, when we bear them thither.”
Page and monarch, forth they went, forth they went together,
Through the cold wind’s wild lament and the bitter weather.
“Sire, the night is darker now, and the wind blows stronger,
Fails my heart, I know not how; I can go no longer.”
“Mark my footsteps, my good page, tread now in them boldly,
You shall find the winter’s rage freeze your blood less coldly.”
In his master’s steps he trod, where the snow lay dinted;
Heat was in the very sod which the saint had printed.
Therefore, every one, be sure, wealth or rank possessing,
You who now will bless the poor shall yourselves find blessing.

The Meaning of Gift will be explored in two 55 minute TelePrograms, December 23 and 26, 2002. Join us.


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